men in LA amuse the sh*t out of me!

a while back i met a really cute caramel colored football player. he was sweet, genuine, and just an all around good guy. well he told me right off the bat he wasn't interested in having a girlfriend at that time. we hung out a few times and well... i'm not going to waste my time on someone that is not ready for a real relationship. i was very much straight-forward with my feelings as well. i rejected him. so he texts me, and he texts me and he texts me some more... always asking to hang out. i think about 2 1/2 months had gone by and finally today he asked me to stop by after i went to the gym. i stopped by... said hello... and he asked me why i rejected him. WELL HELLO!!! i told you already. i'm not going to waste my time on someone that doesn't have time for a relationship. then he kept asking me over and over like he didn't get it. finally, i left. you boys out there... the thought of having a girlfriend is nice but none of you want to put the time and effort into having a relationship. everyone here is out for themselves, no one wants to take care of each other anymore. luckily, LA hasn't jaded me, at least not yet.